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Old 06-17-2012, 06:26 PM
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I find it really amazing that your husband can flip so easily from being very cold and hardened against C to suddenly being so amiable and nice, just based on what you do with your body. That would disturb me greatly. I don't have any advice, but I can totally understand why you feel that he is making no effort anymore to meet your needs, so why bother with meeting his. It's not about punishing him, but how can he expect you to have the energy to be so accommodating to him when he keeps taking back his word and thinks nothing of it? He feels entitled to owning you, it seems. That would drive me nuts.
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