I'm not from your area but I just wanted to wish you well on your spiritual journey. Sometimes they say that "You only find someone when you're not looking." I don't know if that's true, but I reckon there's something to be said for looking in a relaxed (and patient) manner, which you've been doing. Just being you, and enjoying being you, is the key.
On this site, there's a "Dating & Friendships" area (you can use the "Forum Jump" menu, bottom of this page, right hand side, to get to it), which might give you an opportunity to post and look for more people specifically in your area. Also, are there any local poly groups you can meet up with? Try a "polyamory Oregon" search on Google and see what turns up.
Don't know if that will help, but I'm also sending positive energy your way.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"