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Old 06-16-2012, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by SchrodingersCat View Post
...it became clear that the biggest thing that bothered me was the fact that both my husband and best friend were so adamant that there was no way feelings could develop between them if they had sex. I just think that's naive. Since they both refused to admit (to themselves) that it was at least a remote possibility, they certainly had no plan in place to deal with it if that happened.
Your instincts are really pointing you to something important. I believe that if one says never, ever, ever *blank* will happen or I will never, ever feel *blah* and *blah*, well that is just inviting the universe to mess things up. What we fear the most, what we won't face directly, well that invariably bites us on teh ass. This is a good reason to put the brakes on this particular possibility, as well as what others have said about her vulnerability right now.
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