Lost-in truth-we're all lost-in some issue of our life.
We're each in our own spot so where we are, someone else has already been and if we let them-they can suggest the pitfalls to avoid.
You might also look at
www.lovemore.com,
www.xeromag.com and check out some of the books that are listed in the recommended books list.
All have been VERY helpful for me!