Thank you Ceoli. This looks like a good resource to digest.
LovingRadiance, good point! Just when I thought I was working on some of the me issues you bring several concepts to light that I had been ignoring. What do I need to be happy in life?! Why isn't this a question I've been asking myself for years? Definetly a question I'll be spending some time pondering.
I'm off to read the valuable resources you both so kindly pointed out to me. Thanks again!