I read your post and just wanted to say, I admire your strength and thoughtfulness. Me personally, I have decided that I am not going to compromise my happiness/peace of mind no matter what. I will give only what I can give that don't lead to misery. I will walk away if I have to....I decided to love myself first. So if my poly hubby wants/needs more than i can give, I will walk away.....I can be miserable by myself.
Now I am not saying you miserable, or need to walk away. But be content with your boundaries....if you can't then you can't. Don't feel guilty about it, and don't deny your limits....it is not worth it.....I've been there.
Last edited by Mahogany; 06-16-2012 at 05:58 AM.