Welcome to our forum.
Sounds like you have acquired some bumps and scratches in your poly journey, but are still positive about it and willing to adapt to many new changes. So I commend you for that.
Hopefully Polyamory.com will prove to be a good community for you, the good thing is we're there no matter what part of the country (or world) you move to. There's so many good threads here, I'm sure you'll have an enjoyable experience digging in and interacting with fellow members.
Glad you could join us ...
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"