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Old 12-01-2009, 04:59 AM
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The "rule" is-

You, she and he need to discuss what it is EACH of you wants/needs to be happy in a relationship and figure out if those things are compatible.

That's it. IF it is compatible-great move forward. If it's not-then be "just friends" with whoever it won't work with.

Different people need/want different things. The key is finding people who are mature enough to REALLY know what they need/want and then being sure the dynamic of the relationship allows for and promotes discussion of those things.
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