Welcome to our forum.
You've discovered a large "unknown" community, the poly community. People are finding out about us little by little, but it's a slow process. Social acceptance amongst the monogamous mainstream is slow to come about too, but there is progress. In the meantime, I find that it's an exciting movement to be a part of.
Glad you could join us on Polyamory.com, hope you will make yourself at home here.
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"