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Old 06-14-2012, 03:28 PM
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That is a lot to think about, and I'm going to need to take the time to figure out what it is I want and need.
That's entirely natural - stuff like this takes time to percolate and think through.

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Though, in terms of ensuring that she loves me more; it would be ideal, but is that something that can really be helped ?
I don't believe that it is, to be honest - I don't think that we should try to put limitations on someone else's feelings for another. but that doesn't stop some people asking (or demanding) it of their partners.

Good catch - I was hoping you'd pick up on that one! This really sounds like you are going about this the right way.
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