How do poly/monos handle holidays
My hubby is poly, me and his partner are monos (at least for now)...her and I get along fairly well all the while trying to figure this thing out. We both love him very very much, and I genuinely like her as a friend...however...we both know that holidays will be confusing. I enjoy having our entire family over for Thanksgiving for instance...my hubby & I have not "come out" to our family about this situation. I want to invite her over for our family functions so she does not feel slighted or jipped in any way shape or form...
So how do Holidays work in this type of relationship? I am asking for advice because I am not sure how to handle this situation and she equally said she would feel odd.