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Old 06-12-2012, 01:52 PM
WonderingSue WonderingSue is offline
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I agree that there are two separate issues (poly and kinky), and I wonder if she mentioned kinky as a way to let me down easy. I am trying to maintain the friendship and act "normal'.

It was her comment implying her gf's gf can't change that led me to wonder if most polys feel like she did. Because she's always been/felt poly, that she might have a hard time seeing someone who had not previously identified as such to "convert".

I don't know if it's worth discussing, and definitely don't want her to think I am bringing it up to try to change her mind about dating me. We're pretty close friends but on reflection, probably would not be a good match. And for a lesbian, I am horrible at processing.
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