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Old 06-11-2012, 10:30 PM
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Why on earth *not* commit to your friend as a platonic life partner, if you two really get on so well? After all, one primary doesn't preclude another. If/when you find the romantic primary partner you dream of, that person can be co-primary with your friend. Of course, this thought is predicated on you and your friend really caring enough for each other that you'd be comfortable building a life together, and maybe that's not realistically the case. But if your hesitance is because you think only one person can ever fill that "slot" that's just not the case.
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The major players. Me, 30ish bi female. Gia, girlfriend of 4+ years. Clay, boyfriend/dom. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eddie, roommate & fwb.
The supporting cast. Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler. Dexter, Gia's lover. Helen, Eric's lover. Izzy and Nikki, Clay's partners. Liam, Eddie's husband.
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