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Old 06-11-2012, 09:19 PM
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Your experience on Polyamory.com may give you occasion to examine those fears. Note that not all fears are irrational; some are legitimate concerns about real inequities (or crossed boundaries) in a situation. But do a thorough self-analysis first, before figuring in the external triggers (and a fear/concern may be a mix of the rational and irrational).

Also remember that communication can always be improved: for more honesty, more clarity, and more consideration. It's always a good idea to work on/improve communication (both quality and quantity).

Can you describe your feelings, and the hard time you're having of it? Are there any triggers you can identify?
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