Originally Posted by CielDuMatin
Well, it takes a lot of work on HIS part to start making deposits in the love bank again - you're not going to just "get over it" without his actions. You need to get a feeling that he is following through with consistent actions.
Are you in counseling together, or each individually?
We've been in counseling individually and will start couples this week - but will only be able to do that about monthly as that is when I am in his town and we've decided that it will be easier to have our joint counselor there. I tend to visit there slightly more (especially in the summer) because of work and because the plan is for me to move there.
He is working on the love deposits - Thanks for the comments.