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Old 06-10-2012, 08:56 PM
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Wow, this almost sounds like my ex marriage, though we were not poly (I did not even know poly was a thing yet).

It was a contributor to the end of the marriage and I was totally monogamous with him.

In his own case, he had both a private porn issue coupled with an oddly prudish attitude about actual sex (he wanted to have a lot of sex, just not with another human being). He would not have even discussed sex in a therapist's office and when we got marital therapy, he hoped that it would "fix" me and that would save the marriage. The therapy actually sped up the divorce...

So, it is a very good thing that you two are actually talking about this in therapy, it really seems like a start...
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