Im in NJ, my bf , P, attends Poly \Hour a poly meetup once a month @ a bar in nyc. I however, have not gone yet as 1) I am bad at socializing in the best of circumstances and would be suuuper shy. I would probably end up just standing around while P the social butterfly does his thang 2) I am 100% new to poly and consider myself mono for the time being 3) I am not 21 untill september. Sad really =\ so P goes without me. but i hear its a lot of fun.
"Come and bring your wife, husband, girlfriends, boyfriends and theirs and meet like-minded people. If you consider yourself polyamorous or to be in an open relationship, or are considering this loving and progressive way of life, you are invited to come and get advice and support, have some drinks and laughs, and build our community. All are welcome. 7-11 PM. To be added to the mailing list, or if you have any questions, please contact firstname.lastname@example.org
. Second Monday of every month at China 1, 50 Avenue B at 4th St."