I don't use facebook much, but I listed Sward as married with and added Lin as partner after I told my family. I decided to hide all my friends and relationship status after the reaction of my mother and leave this information be. As I said, I don't use facebook that often therefore no one realized the change of Lin's status stated in the small sentence "Phy added Lin as partner." I deleted it the next day for the public eye, but I personally need things to be in order. Therefore I always see 'married with' and partner when I look at my profile. That's enough for me
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.