OK, I just looked at your other thread and I see you're only 21. I assume your bf is of a similar age? No wonder the rush towards a 3some! Young people can be so impatient.
My advice still stands. Poly is tricky and takes excellent communication skills and great care with each partner's feelings.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37