I hope you like it, opal. I've been to one private party, very fun, lots of laughs and spontaneity and participation. And to a "public" (private club) party which was boring and depressing. You never know!
At the public one, most of the people (middle aged, fat, unattractive) stood or sat around and talked about vanilla topics while about 3 or 4 attractive, younger, porn star looking couples played. It just felt like they were putting on a show for the others. Blech! None of them looked really into what they were doing...
Now, I am older, not thin, but I was not about to get semi naked and get publically beaten or sexed in that environment! The Gentleman and I played in a semi private room, but I wasn't into it. At all. We went home early and I felt bad he wasted $20 times 2 for the cover charge.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):
my bf: Ginger, 61, married to:
Robin, 60 (mono)
and dating (NRE): Carla and David, married couple, early 40s