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Old 06-08-2012, 03:46 PM
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I've gone through my FB privacy settings and made it so that all tagged posts have to be approved by me before they will show up on my wall/to my friends/whatever. Perhaps this would be an option for your BF, so nobody gets surprised, him included?

I second the recommendation to talk to her - in my experience, it was uncomfortable as HELL at first, and I used my partner as a go-between quite often, but it was frustrating for him, and we ended up not communicating well at all, just because it turned into a giant game of "telephone". ("Well, that's really not what I meant.") It also made it easier to stay distanced from her, which I really needed to put aside for things to stay healthy.
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