You might note what state you're in? I have no clue about your area....
Redpepper has a link in her signature to a calendar called PolyEvents AllOver, and that's how I found my local meetup. Some locals have facebook groups, but they're often secret. Yahoo might have a local group to you. And meetup.com is also a good place to look for poly events/group near you. My local has a meetup.
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein
Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who lives in the apartment building next door)