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Old 06-07-2012, 03:11 PM
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When she'd told me she wanted the same I had assumed this meant that she was going to break up with her partners and go back to being monogamous and that we would be together and then she could move out here with me.
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I believe I understand polyamory very well.
The first quote indicates to me that the second quote isn't entirely true. In any case, would you want to fall for someone who would break two hearts on a whim like that?

I think you think that her partners are less important to her than a single monogamous partner would be. You need to realise that her relationships with them aren't any less real just because there are two of them. They're not her disposable playthings; she loves them.
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