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Old 06-07-2012, 06:32 AM
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I actually prefer dating guys like that, who don't want exclusivity but have never heard of polyamory. I don't usually even use the "p word" with them. I just talk about my desire not to be exclusive. Sometimes the guys I meet who are experienced polys are wrapped up to much in jargon and protocol, and I like creating new dynamics.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
solopoly.net/2014/10/31/why-im-not-a-secondary-partner-the-short-version/
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