FWIW, TempePoly, it really sounds like you would have better luck on a swinging site rather than a poly site. Not that there is anything wrong with swinging! But you seem to me focused more on the sexual aspect (a "one-night-stand" with repeats if performance is satisfactory to all concerned).
Many (most?) who frequent this site are interested in at least the possibility of emotional/romantic involvement with potential partners (which you make no mention of in your posts).
PS. Woo-hoo threesomes! I like mine in the MFM, FFM, FFF varieties...with people that I already have a relationship with - friends, lovers, girl/boyfriends, spouses (AND I don't live in Arizona AND I'm older than you are looking for AND I am HPV positive).
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (22+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (3+ yrs) and MrS's best friend
Lotus: poly bi female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS (1+ years)
TT: poly male, married to Lotus, FB with JaneQ
VV and MsJ: bi-women with male primaries, LTR LDR FWBs to JaneQ
My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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