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Old 06-07-2012, 02:33 AM
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The simple answer is: If being with one person feels right, mono. If being with more than one person feels right, poly. However, nothing to do with relationships is ever simple, and if something seems simple, something is being overlooked. Although, breaking complex issues down into simpler pieces can be helpful.

Does being with one person feel right? Why does it feel right, or why does it feel wrong? Does being in multiple relationships feel right? Again, why or why not?

If it helps, make a list. Four columns. One person feels right, one person feels wrong, multiple people feels right, multiple people feels wrong. Write down as many reasons you can think of in each column. This probably won't answer the question completely, but it'll get you started.
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