So glad to hear things are going so well for you.
I've really enjoyed reading your entire blog, start to finish. Your honesty about the realities of being a secondary has been very helpful and inspirational for me.
(figured it was time to leave a comment after all the reading I've done)
"This, too, is sacred."
I am my own primary.
Me: F, 30's, bi.
Sadist: my fwb. M, 30's.
Pandora: Sadist's gf. F, 30's.