Originally Posted by redpepper
Okay nycindie, I agree with what you are saying and I will do as you say. I think you are right.
Well, please only do what feels right for you - I am suddenly feeling a bit on the spot because I'm only offering my viewpoint, and while I'm glad what I said sits right with you I'm not telling you what to do, hun! I shouldn't have said "you should..." Let me amend that sentence: I do agree with Mono that it would probably be very good for you to go out and continue seeing these new guys.
I think you've def gotten some good input from other people, too.
It does sound like you are both reconnecting in a good way. More hugs to you...