--Sounds like jealousy to me.
--You say that you want him to be happy but you don't want to see the evidence of that happiness because it makes you uncomfortable... sorry, but to me that's just silly.
--Asking/requiring her to change the habits of her relationship with him because those habits make you uncomfortable seems rather immature.
--I fail to see how her posting facets of HER life on HER fb profile is disrespecting you. Never mind that whole First Amendment free speech thing.
I think the solution is for you and her to not be friends on fb. Ta-da! She gets to exercise her free speech rights and you don't have to be "disrespected".
Pinky, 41, f, bi. Married to Bear, 42, m, straight.
Not dating anyone right now.
I became insane with long intervals of horrible sanity.--EAP