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Old 06-05-2012, 07:15 PM
browneyes browneyes is offline
Join Date: Apr 2012
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Originally Posted by hyperskeptic View Post
Have you considered going to the conference yourself, even just part of it?

The unknown is likely to be much, much scarier than the known. You can think of it as a way of learning more about your bf and where he's coming from.

I don't know the Open SF conference, myself, but a look at the website suggest its much more about talking and learning than about hooking up.

As for the session that makes your eyes well up, the description doesn't seem so very scary:

This suggests, to me at least, that the session will be a forum for discovering how mono/poly relationships can succeed; the answer to whether "these relationships" (not, I hasten to point out people) are "worth the trouble" could well be "yes!" Otherwise, why would they have the session at all?

If you were to attend that session, and were willing to speak up, you could contribute your own experience - and your insecurities about Open SF! - to the conversation. That might be very useful to the other participants.
I was under the impression that this was something he wanted to do for himself since he is also so new to this, and then he would share his experiences with me over the weekend as it went on.

You're right, its not so scary, and reading your comment has sort of put my insecurities in perspective as they 'see what they want to see'.
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