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Old 06-05-2012, 01:04 AM
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It's sounding more and more like you're better off without him. I view honesty as fundamental to a relationship; if my partner can't be honest with me, out the door zie goes. You said yourself you grew up while you were married. Is it possible you two have grown in different directions? Especially if he was deployed for significant time periods and you got used to living on your own. (I don't know that he was. I'm guessing based on a decade of intense military involvement overseas...)
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