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Old 06-05-2012, 12:31 AM
niceinjeans niceinjeans is offline
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Location: Franklin, TN (middle TN)
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Originally Posted by pandabear View Post
I don't want to leave the marriage "for her", I don't want to end the marriage at all. He keeps throwing up the cliche "you cant have your cake and eat it too". **sigh**
Some people seem to be hardwired for monogamy. It is his right to have a monogamous relationship just as much as it is your right to have a polyamorous one.

I would say that "you can't have your cake and eat it too" may apply to your relationship with him, but there are many people who are willing to be in a poly-friendly relationship with you. If you truly want a poly life, you may have to choose between a life with him and the life you crave at some point.

I do hope you are able to resolve things in your marriage.

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