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Old 06-04-2012, 09:26 PM
pandabear pandabear is offline
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Thank you NovemberRain, i appreciate your comments


ThatGirlInGray: I offered that we should go to counseling when this thing all blew up but he said he'd "rather just be honest with one another now" That is what I have been doing, but he has just been "telling me what I want to hear". I'm not really sure what purpose that served him but I was kind of floored when he wanted to separate after all the talking and negotiating we had done. I feel kind of shell shocked right now and I told him that this was just another power play on his part, the whole "my way or the highway" stuff.

I feel like I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. He is asking me to decide between her or him again. He doesn't get that its not between her and him its between ME and him. I don't want to leave the marriage "for her", I don't want to end the marriage at all. He keeps throwing up the cliche "you cant have your cake and eat it too". **sigh**
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