Originally Posted by Vinccenzo
1. find their partner's gender preference for extra partners to be sexually ineffectual and therefor, non threatening?
2. have their eyes on what they can sexually gain from their partner being sexual bait to the non threatening gender?
These seem to be excellent questions, which I have argued about in this forum. I`m afraid my answers are unpopular here, so I`ll wait and see if others chip in.
In my case, if I understand the questions correctly, the threatening gender for a female partner would be male (unless he were bi). I do not feel threatened by either gender in a male partner. The threatening gender for myself is female (threat of rejection), in reply to question #2. I do not feel butthurt when rejected by a male intererest.
Independent, sex-positive, bi-curious, private, atheist, elitist, athletic dude.
Last edited by feelyunicorn; 06-03-2012 at 03:39 PM.