Why thow that all away because the sex sucks ......are talking then or now?
It depends what value you place on that. Lots of people have and would. Girls help me out here
. I don't think polling the guys will help.
Don't you both get into the topic of settling. He has to reluctantly learn to cope with a wife who needs to fuck other guys and you have to settle for an asexual or non performing sexual spouse.
Is he done reading on the forum in the past 10 months?
Is he a member ....and has his own threads? Does he read your threads?