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Old 06-02-2012, 03:08 AM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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Originally Posted by AutumnalTone View Post
That's the only way that would have been consistent
You want consistency from someone facing BRAIN SURGERY in the next week?? Talk about unreasonable...

And you know, since she's the one facing HAVING the surgery, yeah, AT, I think she gets a pass on having emotions and reactions that maybe aren't how she'd normally react. Even if she WAS sending him a "fuck you" message (which I don't think she was, unless he was sending one right back to her by doing something he knew she wasn't okay with!), it's forgivable and understandable. I can totally see where it would be all about her and her fear, her surgery, her life.

And it sounds like PolyCurious did a GREAT job of stepping back, re-evaluating, and finding the ways they could agree after the some of the emotional intensity had passed. I don't think I could have done nearly as well, facing the same situation.

Good Luck PolyCurious! I'll be sending positive vibes your way!
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