Is your wife a member here?
Is this a theory you had and shared with her ...or is this her answer to your questions.
How about she and you go get professional help...talk about the wall ...pain infected 7 yrs ago...maybe there's a bit of pay back here....try to heal those old wounds.
Learn to live with the wall...distract yourself by falling with another women. Learn to deal with the new dynamic ...it is what it is. You wanted this and unfortunately you have to take the good and the bad. How much pain are we talking 1-10 ?
Last edited by dingedheart; 06-01-2012 at 02:56 PM.