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Old 05-30-2012, 04:26 PM
ThatGirlInGray ThatGirlInGray is offline
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Since none of it has happened yet, it may be that when you actually see how excited/happy/grateful she is when she comes home from "messing around" you'll feel compersion without having to do anything too specific to "make" it happen (I put "make" in quotes because let's face it, you can't really force yourself to feel something). And hopefully, once this moves from the hypothetical to the reality, you'll also be able to realize (with her support) that you haven't lost anything. But I can understand how it looks like that when you're just starting to change your mindset from mono to poly.
Pan Female, Hinge in a V between my mono (straight) husband, Monochrome and my poly (pan) partner, ThatGuyInBlack
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