I know right? I am just so proud of him and kind of shocked because his initial reaction was so strong. But I just did what several members suggested and stood my ground in a very loving way and he did a complete 180 in 2 days of thought on it.
Today he even said that he hopes that his freak out didn't ruin things with her because i had to put a halt on things till we sorted this out. He seemed genuinely concerned for her emotional state through this (she was very upset that he was upset and was concerned that she was ruining my marriage). He said that he wants me to be happy and feels like this is the most honest we have been with each other in years. Seriously, I am so happy right now, i cant quite smiling. LOL!!
Thank goodness for this board!!! Seriously LOVE you guys right now hahahaha!