Thank you for the clarification, MrFarFromRight. And my apologies for misinterpreting you. I can't say much more about the comment I thought was condescending, because it's not the specific words, but the tone of the comment that made me think that. But I do believe you if you say you didn't mean it like that. I might have reacted too harshly because you used me as an example and I had a feeling of being wrongly portrayed. But all is good now on my part, I understand better where you're coming from and sorry again for the snappy comments.
Me: bi female in my 30's
Living with my partners Hank and Dahlia, my metamour Eddie (Dahlia's partner) and my ex/friend rory
Also dating Fay