Thank you for the clarification, MrFarFromRight. And my apologies for misinterpreting you. I can't say much more about the comment I thought was condescending, because it's not the specific words, but the tone of the comment that made me think that. But I do believe you if you say you didn't mean it like that. I might have reacted too harshly because you used me as an example and I had a feeling of being wrongly portrayed. But all is good now on my part, I understand better where you're coming from and sorry again for the snappy comments.
Me: bi female in my 30's
Partners: Hank, Dahlia and Fay
Metamours: Eddie (Dahlia's long-term partner), Hy (Dahlia's new partner), Gabriel (Fay's long-term partner), Isaac (Fay's new partner)
Living with Hank, Dahlia, Eddie and rory (my ex/friend)