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Old 05-28-2012, 02:52 PM
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The way I see it, if you demand X for yourself but refuse to work on your insecurities to the point that you can give X to your partner... if, for instance, you told your husband that you didn't want him and his gf saying ILU... THAT would be a huge problem. That would be a double standard. But just having "hypocritical" *feelings* is perfectly normal and fine. You should do just what you're now, recognize and examine them and keep working them, but just having scared/jealous feelings in no way makes you bad or abnormal. It's gonna be ok!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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