Originally Posted by Phy
I am not so happy with my plan to have some kind of a weekly date with Sward. Lin was the one picking up on my idea and informing Sward that Sunday would be 'our day'. Meaning that Lin wanted to get lost in his room or next door (brother-in-law and sister) to give us some time and space. But when the day arrived, we went to the gym and did some things on our own later on. We weren't in the mood to cuddle up on the sofa and watch a film. Maybe we will manage to do so today. I need a way to get used to scheduled quality time as it seems and Sward needs to as well.
A full day may just be too ambitious a goal, especially for every week. Maybe just breakfast in bed and a few alone hours
, knowing that the rest of the day will be spent on normal stuff. One week it could be a special breakfast and the next picnic in the park, etc.