Originally Posted by NovemberRain
I don't think you're selfish in the least. What you are doing is taking nothing away from him. You are not depriving him of anything he had.
Well thank you for saying so. I guess I just feel like he is not making any attempt to understand my perspective even though I have been transparent. I could have easily done this without his knowledge but that isn't who I am and I love him and wouldn't hurt him that way. I feel at this point like I am being punished for my honesty and being told that who I am isn't OK with him. I wish he could just open his mind a little
I would even be ok if he wanted a GF too. In anger yesterday he said I can keep her if he could have a mistress, I dont think he meant it though.