I also live in a small town. It's about an hour east of Dallas. Bear, my husband, owns a business in our little burg; so while I'm out to my close friends about what we're doing, he's only out to a couple of his close friends. The only blood family members that know are my sister and BIL. No one else in either of our families would take our lifestyle change well. At all.
I figure that at some point someone might notice something that seems.... off(?) to them about our family life, but we'll deal with that if/when it ever occurs.
Pinky, 41, f, bi. Married to Bear, 42, m, straight.
Not dating anyone right now.
I became insane with long intervals of horrible sanity.--EAP