Hello, is it possible to make some paragraph breaks in your post? Its hard to read. Thanks. You only have a certain amount of time to do so, so no biggy if you don't get to it. Maybe the next posts?
It seems to me that it would of been really awkward to have to deal with a boss in a different way than just a boss. That would suck! Personally I have a "no dating" co-workers rule for myself, but if my partner dated my co-worker and especially my boss, I don't know what I would do. Really hard to determine.
It sounds like his cheating, like most cheating, was damaging and hurtful. You have every right to take as long as you need to gain your trust back of him. He needs to earn it but showing you that he intends to be honest at all costs and do what he says he will do (integrity).
It sounds like you are on your way if you are planning on going to some local meets. That should help you see that we are not all freaks and that it does work. It might help to go knowing that you can decide what YOUR idea of poly means to you. There is no set way of doing it and he certainly doesn't have a say in what you do. Its all up to you. He had better be prepared for you venturing out on your own as you see fit. What is good for the goose, should be good for the gander as they say.
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