For about the first five years it had that 3D feel to it, though it was concave rather than convex. It's been nearly 10 years since I got it so not so much anymore. Because I know exactly where it is I can feel it, and Bear can feel it, but someone that doesn't know my body as well wouldn't be able to tell it's there without seeing it.
Pinky, 41, f, bi. Married to Bear, 42, m, straight.
Not dating anyone right now.
I became insane with long intervals of horrible sanity.--EAP