New to this... a few questions/concerns
Hey there everyone,
Never thought I would be on a Poly site. Anyways...
I guess I've always been a monogamous person - or at least raised that way. Thing is I've recently met a poly girl and things have gotten deeper. I'm not in anyway opposed to a poly relationship just not accustomed to it.
The idea has certainly gone through my mind in the past and it seems to work well with my lifestyle. After all I go to a maritime academy and spend several months out of the year at sea. During the school year I focus on my studies and work. So I've found a "traditional" relationship difficult to maintain over the past year or two. Plus there have been numerous times in previous relationships that have been hurt due to other women.
Basically my question is... how does one manage jealously and the like? She(lets call her S) recently talked about her lover and it didn't necessarily get me extremely jealous but, I can tell that type of thing could be a trigger for me...