Thank you! Both of you helped put my mind at ease. Nycindie, it really probably is best if I just want him from afar. Flirty friends should be ok, right? And Anneintherain, #2 would be a HUGE factor. He's one of my managers. Unless one of us transfered locations, it's a no no for us to date. I think at times some thoughts and feelings just need to be let out and acknowledged.
Oh, what a tangled web we weave...