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Old 05-24-2012, 07:47 PM
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Originally Posted by BaggagePatrol View Post
For those that are on the "deal-breaker side" - is there any configuration in which you think that cheating is less abhorrent? Are there grey areas, or is it black and white? For example - a husband has a mistress because his wife is paraplegic or has advanced stage cancer. He loves her, doesn't want to hurt her, but also doesn't want to burden her with his sexual needs. is NOT OKAY to be lying to a terminally ill or disabled person "for hir own good". Holy wow, just no. Y'all work it out together and then decide what to do, because anything else is massively disrespectful.

I think the only possible situation where that's kosher is if a partner is in an irreversible coma. Then you can't ask permission/discuss/etc.
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