That's the best word to describe our lifestyle of choice.
I am 32, my husband of almost 14 years is 33 years old. We have a 10 year old daughter (only child). We live in Oklahoma. We are both Atheist after many years of devout religiosity (of the Southern variety).
I am bisexual. My husband is straight. He wants a female, I want a female and/or male. Neither have to be single.
We were courting the same woman but she had so many things preventing her from making the commitment we were looking for. She was married and had three children.
Around the same time as the break up with her, I started a long distance relationship with an ex BF serving overseas in the military. But as soon as he returned he ceased contact with no warning. He was married also.
I quickly felt out of place when I peaked into the swinging world. We want relationship, love, friendship, courting, butterflies. Maybe eventually merging households if prospects are good enough.
There is so much to read here that I don't even know where to start. Nearly every thread I click is full of interesting topics and view points written by people I want to get to know better because I find them fascinating.
Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read all of this and I hope to get to know the community a lot better in months to come.